I just realized that it might be better to flip this around and use reclaim to manage my domain and point the right mx record or records back to hover.
I found their support page on doing that and have changed the nameservers to reclaim. However, when i attempt to add the mx record, I can’t match up Hover’s directions with the options when editing the records in cpanel here. Their instructions (https://help.hover.com/hc/en-us/articles/217281927-Buying-and-managing-your-email-accounts) say to use these settings:
It might be better just to stick with the Hover name servers. You can repoint the A record to the IP of the server your account here at Reclaim is hosted on,
165.227.159.168
Let me know if you need anything else.
Gordon Hawley
Customer Support Specialist
Reclaim Hosting